
The pedestrian code
Posted by Don Packett under Uncategorized on March 10 2007 at 10:28 AMWhen I was a kid I’d sit outside my house, watching cars go by, trying to name the correct make and model before they got too close (probably just a boy thing), but what I’d be fascinated by was how people walking in the streets would greet each other as they walked by.
One day I was sitting outside with our maid and she greeted a man as he walked by, and he in turn greeted her back. I asked her, “Ellie, is that man your friend?” And she said, “No, I’m just saying hello.”
I was probably about seven or eight years old at the time, and it’s one of those stories you never forget. I was fascinated at how total strangers could greet, smile, and continue on their way as normal.
This morning I walked to the office (about a twenty minute trek) and was greeted by, and in turn returned greetings to all but two out of I’d say fifteen passers-by, and those two were on the other side of the road. A nod, a smile, a heita. Any form worked. I can tell you this though, the walk would’ve been lank boring had I not had some form of interaction on the way, and I’m sure those folks feel the same way.
March 10th, 2007 at 11:16 am
Dude, I couldn’t agree more, it’s one of the very few things I miss about being brought up in the UK, we (the car-drivers) just don’t have a strong pavement culture. It’s a shame really…!
March 10th, 2007 at 11:27 am
It is so amazing how far a little smile and hello will go. You probably made 13 people’s day! Very good on ya!
And the walk probably did you good too!
Hang on, look who’s talking!!!
March 10th, 2007 at 11:32 am
Hehe. Yeah, it was my 20-minute Saturday cardio session!
March 11th, 2007 at 5:13 pm
Rich times have changed a lot since you grew you up in the UK. If you were to smile/nod/knowledge a stranger on the streets here they would think you were nuts. It’s just not done – a bit like talking on the tube or the train.
March 11th, 2007 at 9:32 pm
Disagree Bronwyn, maybe it is that way in the city but outside, people share a smile and a ‘hi’ or ‘good morning’. Today I went for a walk in the sunshine, must have past up to 10 people of all ages, all greeted me or were greeted by me, made me happy.
It’s a great post Don reminding us all to be a little more human.
March 12th, 2007 at 12:59 pm
From the littlest age, my son went to Pick ‘n Pay with me, wobbling around in those inimitable trolleys. At about 3 years, he looked up at me one time, & asked: “Mom, why are African people more friendly to me than others?”. It was pertinent then, & is now, to note how isolated our culture is, from the ease & enjoyment of ‘meet & greet’. Today, my sons greet everyone they meet, & usually get a most warm & friendly response. Thanks for reminding us!
March 12th, 2007 at 5:20 pm
Well, this is something new for me as this is my first ever blog, if that’s the correct term or blog reply rather!
But don’t you find it weird that one can greet another on the pavement, roadside, street etc etc but not when you’re in a car? Think about it, how many times have you casually gazed across at the car next to you and out of the kindness of your heart you give a hearty hello. The recipient will stare back with a look of utter shock in that another human being can actually want to engage in pure, innocent friendliness. And as you smile and perhaps even lift your hand to wave to them, you’re blinded from the glare from their knuckles turning white as they tighten their grip on the sterring wheel. Their head slowly turns away from you as they then look with anticipation up at the robot which for them seems as though the red light has been red for the past few minutes. They slowly creep forward just out of sight ahead of you in the hope that you get the message that they are not to be socialised with in any way….until you then creep forward and re-align yourself with them and as they look over at you again and are about to flip you the bird, a toot from the car on the opposite side of them turns their way and says howzit to you. Their role in this whole greeting was that they were in the way of you saying howzit to a buddy one lane over! Lesson taught, don’t be a prick and lesson learnt, you’ll most likely tolerate people in traffic from now on regardless of wether you’re involved or not.
Seano
March 12th, 2007 at 11:11 pm
‘Helper’, Donnie. ‘Maid’ isn’t exactly PC. Just keeping you in the loop buddy. You know, just before you pull the whole “Transvaal” card or, God forbid, the “Orange” Free State
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March 13th, 2007 at 1:40 am
Let’s call a maid a maid.
March 13th, 2007 at 8:43 am
I knew there’d be at least one tit.
After reading this whole post, all you get out of it is that I called my maid a maid. Mo, dude, back then she was our maid, today you can call her whatever the fuck you like, but just check here first.
If you’re too lazy: “A maidservant or in current usage maid is a female employed in domestic service.”
Plain and simple bro, in the Free State or any other place.